Parents: How to Guide Your Children Through Perceived 'Bad Thoughts'

Without bypassing their emotions and empowering them to utilize and integrate the intelligence of Life Force in their DNA within our Unified Field.

My love Amanda-Lee and I will be ready to have children next year, so this is ripe on our minds which is why I feel called to speak on this topic.

A dear friend and father sent me an IG Reel with a beautiful mother and child sharing their practice of what to do with bad thoughts...

Now while of course every parent should be honored to do what they feel is right for their family... I am not writing this to judge any parent with their own practices.

I am sharing this to educate those open to another perspective, based on my experience from the hundreds of clients I have worked with over the years who are parents, working through collective subconscious blocks with their children, and the deeper energetics of human conditioning within the quantum construct of our Unified Field.

There is a lot of uninitiated shallow misunderstanding and bypassing of how the energetics of subconscious programming, collective generational conditioning, suppressed emotions, and patterns of behavior are catalyzed through our relationship with our emotions and energies.

This particular mother was guiding her daughter to tell bad thoughts: "Go away you have no power here"

It is also common for those who align with new-age spiritual practices to believe they need to create a 'shield of protective energy' around them when they experience a negative energy from another person, group of people, or even a movie.

This is a common practice many parents (including my clients) have believed is a good practice to teach their children. Essentially this guides their children to immediately label a perceived thought as 'bad', and pushes the emotion away attempting to cognitively 'replace' the bad thought with a positive one. But here is where this becomes distorted.

I will now explain why this is a dangerous practice to teach our children from the way our minds are programmed, subconscious conditioning, and the energetics of Life Force.

Guiding our children to perceive a thought as 'bad', and then push that thought away, or make it go away, or tell them it has no power over us, is effectively SUPPRESSING or PUSHING AWAY the tension that is arising in the child's experience.

Any inner tension or stress that we experience is merely Life Force intelligence there to inform us, not to push away.

And while yes of course we need to ensure that we label certain external physical experiences as 'bad' to create safety from war, actual physical danger, violence, etc., we also need to be careful to not treat our emotions as the same violent perpetrators of our physical experiences.

Thoughts are not physical experiences to be fearful of.

This is where there is a deep misunderstanding of subconscious psychology and the dynamics of our energy within Life's Intelligence.

If we teach our children to label emotions and feelings that arise as 'bad' or

'dangerous' then this is the very catalyst that programs their minds to unconsciously push away these 'bad' thoughts over the years.

Creating a life of subconscious suppression, and potential addiction to distracting

'positive experiences' and 'positive affirmations' instead of alchemizing and integrating the intelligence and data of the initial stress or tension. Which would more beneficially and naturally allow Life Force (what we name as God) to work through the tensions for us within our DNA.

What I recommend instead: We need to teach our children to kinesthetically surrender into the stress or tension the very moment the stress arises, to then allow the quantum intelligence of Life Force to alchemize the tension in their DNA. That tension for the child is data they need to utilize as the Life Force arising. It is not something that should be suppressed or immediately labeled as ‘bad’.

The more these tensions are suppressed as a child, the more they will just create a repeated unconscious pattern of bypassing for the child as they grow into adulthood. This will influence their perceived ‘bad’ emotions every time they are in a relationship challenge, or communicating with anyone with stressful emotions, and prevent the child from having a healthier relationship to their own and other’s stressful emotions.

This will literally create a negative mental environment of labeling ‘bad emotions’ and then unconsciously spiritually bypassing them, and never learning from them.

The child will grow into an adult who does not have a healthy relationship with the full spectrum of emotions in life, they will not be able to empathize with their own friends, family members, or partners when they are experiencing ‘bad’ emotions, and the child will not gain mastery over the energetics of truth within our Unified Field.

The truth of energetics is if we just KINESTHETICALLY SURRENDER TO, ALLOW, and INTEGRATE any energy or emotion that arises in our experiences, not try and push away or protect, we will allow that LIFE FORCE which is intelligent, to inform and transform our DNA at a quantum level. No affirmations are needed, no mantras, no illusions of uninitiated spiritual practices, or false new age teachings. Just let go let ‘God’, meaning let go and surrender into our Unified Field to quantumly work through the tensions and allow new data to inform our immediate relationship to the thought and then create a new fractal experience in our lives. This is an advanced somatic surrender process lost over centuries of imbalanced obsession with the mind to control, not integrate.

A big topic I will continue to speak on, as I prepare over the next year for fatherhood.